Q. I think my boyfriend is about to break up with me. Should I break up with him first and get it over with?

A. It sounds like you and your boyfriend may be experiencing a low-point in your relationship. That’s okay. Everybody does.

Before either one of you leap into action, you both need to sit down and address what’s going on. Don’t assume that you know what the other person is thinking or what they want to do. Address your feelings honestly with one another and then address your relationships and what problems are coming up.

After this discussion, you can both decide what you want to do personally and as a couple. Be honest with each other and honest with yourselves. Are you really better people together? Or are you ready to move on and find something else? You’re the only two that can answer the right questions.

Author | NLP-MP | I write about relationships, psychology, and growth. Founder @ The Dragr App. My new book — Relationship Renovator — is available now.

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