Q. What can I do for my girlfriend to make her feel better about abortion? via Quora

A. The best thing you can do for her is to be there and be a compassionate and non-judgemental person she can rely on.

You don’t need to bring things up, but don’t stop her if she wants to talk about it either. Set up a comfy night in with her. Watch some of her favorite movies and make some of her favorite snacks. What she needs right now is to know that she is loved and that life will be normal again. She also needs to know that she is not any less worthy.

Be her best friend right now. Remind her how loved she is, and do what you can to be strong and keep live moving along as normally as possible.

Stay strong.

Author | NLP-MP | I write about relationships, psychology, and growth. Founder @ Dragr App. New Book: Relationship Renovator — available March 29th.

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