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Are they being honest about their feelings?
Some of the signs to look out for, and what they really mean.
by: E.B. Johnson
Although it can be one of the most painful things to admit, the people we love aren’t always honest with us about their feelings. Even if we care for them more than we care for ourselves, that doesn’t always mean they want to stay or that they want to build a life with us. It’s important to be honest with yourself when it feels like something isn’t right. Though your partner might say they want to be with you, there are some concrete warning signs that can reveal that they might be leading you on.
Signs that they’re lying about how they feel about you.
Although someone might say the right things, there are a number of warning signs that can indicate that they don’t really want to be with us as much as they claim to. Whether you’re in a long-term partnership, that’s gone cold, or you’re just setting out with someone who makes your heart go silly — lookout for these signs as an indication that they don’t really want to be with you.
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